The key to marrying a good Egyptian man is to test him.

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I am a foreigner male living in Egypt. Egyptian men overall are quite wonderful and I personally know many men here who would be great and ethical husbands to foreign women. This perhaps comes via meeting a lot of men so I am able to weed out the good catches from the not-so-good.
 
 

Although I hate to generalize, there are some negative personality traits that I have observed too often from a lot of Egyptian men which can be red flags. Control freak tendencies even if minor, quick personality shifts or changes which can include revenge, quick to anger, inability to admit errors or wrongdoing, and poor active listening skills thus a tendency to interrupt too quickly.

 
The key to marrying a good Egyptian man is to test him. It thus increases the odds for success. Wanting to leave Egypt is not always a bad sign since many indeed want to create a better life for themselves and their future family or at least explore the world. Of course if their goal of marriage is to just obtain a visa then that is the biggest red flag.

 
Here are ways to improve your odds via tests. And it doesn’t matter if Egyptian men read these tests and attempt to con you by pretending to be ethical. The truth always seeps through sooner or later even if via the smallest discreet ways.

 
1) Avoid those who work in the tourism industry or who have access to a lot of tourists. He should be working though somewhere. Not all are bad of course. I am just saying it will increase your odds if his work has nothing to do with tourism. At minimal, try to meet men elsewhere other than at a tourism setting.

 
2) Observe carefully his active listening skills towards you and others. If he interrupts too quickly, doesn’t ask you and others questions about the things you and others are saying, etc, etc then than can be a sign of lurking impatience as well as him lacking certain social observational skills. If he is truly interested in you and others, he will be consciously aware of not interrupting when others are talking. Also, good active listening skills is also a sign of intelligence. A good listener is able to acquire more data, is less likely to assume or jump to quick conclusions before knowing all the details, and being a good listener is also reflective of politeness and kindness which are both reflective of having above average intelligence. A patience is a very good sign reflective of a man who is less controlling. A man who is a good careful listener can lead to success, especially in the future when conflicts or disagreements arise. Egyptian men, for some control freak reason,
always usually have to be right, if there is a conflict. You will observe this via their listening skills when it occurs whereby they reject what the other person is saying and sticks to their own opinions feeling that their own opinion is always the correct one.

 

3) Monitor carefully if he is able to admit errors without a ritual dance of denial. And can he apologize quickly without the denial dance. I have actually only met one Egyptian man in my life who can do that. If they make an error and it is exposed or confronted, they usually go to great efforts to blame the other person or situation. This behavior is also contradictory to common religious beliefs. Egyptian men will often say God Willing that something should happen. But if something goes wrong they too often get frazzled. Maybe it was God’s Will that something went wrong, right? Not getting frazzled so quickly by things that go wrong, and being able to admit wrongdoing to you or to others reveals a man who is both respectful to others and towards God.

 

4) Make sure he is absolutely against the idea of Muslims marrying 4 wives, even if he is a Muslim. Now I am not saying that he might marry others after being married to you. On the contrary, the point is that he should be against the idea itself. If he is, that is a sign that he can understand how to properly love and care for a woman because his awareness can understand loyalty and devotion. It doesn’t matter what is allowed by religious laws or cultural acceptance. Even if he is a Muslim he should not like that notion of 4 wives. The truth is, marrying 4 wives is basically legal cheating. And it is a very cruel thing to do to a woman no matter all the fancy justifications or possible reasons for it. Would an Egyptian man like it if his wife was married to 3 other men even if it was allowed or there was a good excuse for it? No way; his heart would be shattered and broken.


 
5) Test him via your communications with other men in front of him. Does he tend to get jealous if you speak to or have male friends, or does he get frazzled if you speak nicely and give friendly attention to other men around him? If an Egyptian man truly loves you he won’t get frazzled by this to the point of control. He will want you to have male friends and he will want to elevate your life and freedom not constrict it. It doesn’t matter all the fancy justifications for controlling women’s interactions with men such as religious justifications, what the neighbors will think, claiming that other men will flirt, etc…. it’s all nonsense. The truth is it is about control and jealously. A smart man knows that if he properly treats and loves his woman, she will not flirt with others and will remain loyal; even if other men flirt with her, she will not respond back in that same manner. He thus should not get frazzled if you go out for lunch with another man. (It is slightly taboo to do that in Egypt but in other countries it is fine.) So test him and be sure he knows you have male friends too. If he takes an interest in your male friends and becomes friends with them too, well that is a very rare Egyptian man. Remember, when Egyptian men say things like they are ‘worried for your safety’ if you go venture outside alone such as shopping, it is all a hoax and they know it. It is all about control and jealousy.
 

6) Perhaps at first show minimal interest at living together in another country. Show more interest in you wanting to stay in Egypt and carve out a life together with him. Even if you have to slightly lie, this still can be an important test to determine if he truly loves you or just wants a marriage only to gain foreign nationality. The truth is, if there is strong devoted love between two people, where you live – even temporarily – makes no difference, you just want to be with each other. Also, a very good life can indeed be carved out in Egypt. It is a false notion that only a good life can be found overseas. Incomes are of course different. But the truth is I have more chances at living like a king here in Egypt than I do in my country of birth.

 
7) Observe his religious beliefs whatever those are. It doesn’t matter what the belief is, just note one thing: can he humble himself to the truth that he might be wrong about what he thinks he knows or has been taught. Humbleness is the key to being spiritual and religious, not indoctrinated know-it-all assumptions. Humbleness might manifest like this:”The Koran says this, but the truth is nobody know really knows if it is the exact truth or not.” or “This is what the Koran says will happen, but God is powerful and can do whatever He wants including change prophecy”. Etc. Humbleness is a rare quality. That is why no Muslim can accept when you tell them that Prophet Muhammed wrote personal letters to Kings around the world stating that Jesus is God in the flesh. One of those letters is in St. Catherine’s Monestary in Egypt. Tell a Muslim man this and he will always reject it because he cannot humble himself to the truth that he and others (including religious experts) might be wrong about what they know or have been taught.

 
Don’t be strict with testing. Men are not perfect and do indeed make mistakes and deserve chances. Just use keen observation and don’t rush into the relationship. My points aren’t mentioned in order to find a perfect Egyptian male but rather only to increase the odds of success by observing certain discreet personality traits either good or bad. And if you are paying out money too fast too many times at the start of the relationship….. danger, danger, danger, red flag.

 
 

67 Responses to The key to marrying a good Egyptian man is to test him.

  • luvlyn says:

    thank sir for the intelligent guidance,maybe i do some of your advise to test him. . .

  • Jennifer Carmody says:

    I do not agree with most of what this man has written. I have been married to an Egyptian man for many years, and while some of what is written here is true, especially about Hurghadian men, most of it is not.

    • Tiye says:

      So Jennifer you do agree it’s true about Hurghadian men? I have been communicating with a man for 9 months who says he is from Taba but he works in Hurghada for 12 years. He is younger but professes undying love for me. My observations and intuition tells me he is lying that is why I am researching now before I travel there to meet him in person.

      • ToBe says:

        Tiye,.. Just curious if you ended up going. I am pretty much in the same situation but not pushing it as I too believe he is lying. Also hurghada btw. Did you ever use Skype or just chat ?

  • Theodora says:

    I was married to an Egyptian man for nearly 35 years. I recently divorced him, because finally I realized that this man was an extreme Narcissist and would never change. We have three children that I raised almost single handedly. My ex-husband led a double life and hardly ever worked and was always terribly unsupportive: making my life and my children’s a living hell. When I fell ill he accused me of attention seeking. In recent years he has brewed up a new story:he has been disinherited by his father (a medical doctor and a diplomat. This is a strange story. From my long experience with Egyptians I find this pattern of usage and abuse time and time again. BEWARE! Egyptians are usually very complicated personalities….

  • Ros says:

    Your comment sounds like it could have been mine. I was married for 35 years to an Egyptian man. We had 3 children whom I raised singlehandedly.
    He was a control freak and Dr Jekyl Mr Hyde character. He made our life hell.

  • Hilde says:

    I agree with what the writer off this article states, I have had a relationship with such an Egyptian Koptic man for 5 years, he was from Heliopolis, Cairo, well educated, he had all the good qualities the writer mentions. It was me the spoiled western woman who ruined the relationship,a few years later on I started to realize what a good person he was and I regret till this day, 18 years later on, having ended the relationship. He is married now has two children, I live together with another man for 14 years, but honestly I wish I could turn back the time.

  • Yahia says:

    Well, I ‘m An Egyptian guy .. and i would just want to tell something here .. men are just men anywhere .. I ‘m sorry if any of you experienced someone awkward or strange out there in my home country, but just to put it clear, a lady won’t fall to a guy unless she feels something for him, there is some chemistry and common interests as well that build up some sort of a bond in between the two of them, and actually this takes some time to build up (as both should be involved in a lot of situations and occasions that will reveal their personality to one another). trust your intelligence then follow your heart, if you love someone and he loves you, I don’t see a possibility here that one would judge another, otherwise it’s just desperation and a fake relationship

    • pretty feve says:

      Why egyptian much lier and hedding’ iam still marriges with egyptian from alex’ and we are together for 8 years’ i dont know if he heeding he is afraid’ or dont hurt me in a suck of way’ when i found something’ example he went to egypt and i ask did you take pic’ for your fam’ then he well said no’ we did’nt’ but sunddenly i found his sister in engages when he was in egypt’ after a couples of month when we was in the holeday’ he show me a pic and siad’ look my sister is engages now’ and i was sad for him’ but bhysecally he was that party? so egyptian lier’

  • Cecilia says:

    I red all the comments here and its very clear to me that this is not about the race this is men in general.I have suffered the same situation but his not even an Egyptian.But there is one thing I will say and have observed Arab men are just defensive,jealous and self controlling because I do believe its the culture its not who they are.You know that there history is somewhat always about war etc. so this is the way there lives have worked that’s why in some cases they cant help it,it comes out.And another thing is we all know that usually women have no voice in this countries so in there nature and how they are brought up Women have to do anything.But this will always depends on how us women want to be treated by men.If you let him treat you like trash eventually he will but if u let him know that i would not be disrespected nor stepped then everything will be all good.Just remember the key to a Biracial Relationship is communication ,Acceptance and Understanding.

    • A says:

      it is not that Arabs r controlling over women it is about how afraid they are over them how do they love them ..it is normal for a man to get angry when somebody tries to touch his wife or try to be nice with her ..this is not Controlling ..this is loving Caring and white- face jealous..we cant let anyone kisses ..physically touches our women

  • Arisara Love says:

    thank youu a lot for this advice’s . and i am from Thailand i meet before 3 years ago Egyptian boyfriend and i can tell he is the most warm heart i meet in my life i knew he is not rich but he was very well polite and make me cannot believe how he is so polite with me i was bad to him and i leave him and start go with new boyfriend European who make me feel hate my ex egyptian boyfriend he was talk bad about egyptian man and yes he make me believe him and i started scare and i cut contact with my egyptian boyfriend after 2 years later i start feel unhappy with my european boyfriend who just lied to me tooo much and use me and use my money and my all my life and he was bad too with my family i never feel he love them only show lie smile , i was bad too much with my egyptian boyfriend really bad and i wish anyone guide me how to get him back i cry now everyday for him i not know how can i say i not know he married or single but all i remember he never use me and never rude to me and i know me and my new boyfriend was very bad with my egyptian ex . i really say he was warm to me and good heart but i never know i love him so much like this i know ony after my bad new boyfriend gone away . and to my egyptian boyfriend i am so sorry and i want marry him this time sure really , if he can forgive me i will go to him now , now i sure he is still good but i the one who get back my bad what i did to him i really hurt him so big when he love me so much . if you can say how i can make him come back and i really promise change for be good woman forever for him now i know who is my man but i hope he not marry another lady new . and for all comments owners here not all man same some man bad some man really good and you will not believe how he so good but after you leave him you start know he was the true man for you but you dont know . now my mission is to get my man back again if i can .

  • Karell says:

    I agree with most of the above comments, negative or positive. And I thank a man for caring about female feelings!
    This can apply to most mediterranean and middle-eastern men unfortunately.
    I believe all women test their men, all the time, it’s just natural to us, but we will only believe what we want to believe in the end, so their is nothing as just another “poor western woman that got abused”, this is what these men flatter their egos and what society wants you to believe. Arab women have it just as hard, if not harder!
    To all the women out there, you can learn a lot by observing how their female counterparts behave. It is important though to be yourself with all your flaws and make it clear who you are, you might scare him away by testing your personality with him, and him leaving you will actually be the best thing that could have happened to you.
    Above testing, there is something that works each time. If you’re naturally strong tempered, good, if not man up, trust me if you come as a strong woman, you are sure to attract the only one willing to take you in and tame you that will still be there after all the others have left!

  • k says:

    thanks guys.this post is so shocking for me. im 18 and my egyptian boyfriend is 24, we have a relationship via internet. i love him so much and he loves me (i guess). he’s cute, intelligent and educated but he’s very serious, insecure, jealous, possesive and controlling. he told me that being jealous is how he ‘express his love’. i cant even have male friends without him thinking that am with them, he said he trust me but it seems the opposite. he told me not to wear skirts, shorts or open clothes that would show my body even my legs! i told him i wont dress like a muslim! he said atleast it would be safer. he even told me i cant go to parties! whenever he gets angry at me he would go a day without talking to me. he doesnt admit his wrongs nor apologize, whenever we are mad at each other im the one who always talks back to him first. he always want things his way, i can never have things my way. i dont want to spoil him but i dont want to make him unhappy either.
    as for marriage, will think about that another time because i dont want to regret anything.

    • Sarah says:

      Hi, after reading your comment it sounds very much like my situation. I too am talking to a Egyptian in the internet who’s also 24.and all the above as you mentioned. But I’m much older than him and he says to him age doesn’t matter it’s the heart that counts.. He’s very charming . I’m just curious though where your boyfriend is from? And if his name is Karim by chance?

      • Kim says:

        Sarah…I’m in the same boat..and head over heels with this guy with name of Kmer..Is yours from Cairo? Mine is soooooo awesome..but unfortunately he is in tourist industry, not sure why that is bad..but really have fallen for the guy.

      • Renee says:

        Hi Sarah, I met someone by the name of Karim and I am older too! He goes by Tomas and is from Aswan. I met him on the Nile after getting off a cruise ship. He is very charming… I’m wondering if it is the same guy too! Please let me know!

  • Ahmad says:

    an Egyptian guy here .. its sad to hear that about Egyptian men since i’m one of them .. but what is really sad is that its true that there are many men here – especially those who work in the tourism field – just look for the visa & for the opportunity to have a better life by using someone ..but its not about being Egyptian .. its about the life they had .. we had a really bad governmental system for more than 30 years which f**ked up our country in all aspects .. those who tend to use someone to have a better life have been through a lot they are poor & they see that this is their only chance .. i know this shouldn’t be a reason to do so i’m not trying to justify i just say they have THEIR reasons… but come on we aren’t all like that .. its not hard to meet someone here who is well educated , have his dreams already & is fighting for it by himself without even relying financially on his parents.
    i’m one of these Nice .. maybe richer guys :\ i’m not saying i’m better than these poor guys i just say i have a better life & of course its not about poor people but most of these guys are poor .. rich wont do that !

    about that controlling part .. what can i say , i just hate our culture & it has nothing to do with Islam btw christians here are like that too . men in Arabic countries tend to be more jealous & controlling they grew up on that so if your bf is like that , don’t understand that you aren’t from the same culture like him & respect your own one so it means he is narrow minded & probably wont be good for you but you have to respect his culture too & if he asked for something that you can do without feeling annoyed don’t be like “he is trying to control me” maybe he isn’t controlling & he is just jealous because the way you deal with men in your culture is way too different than his.

    lol i just realized i wrote that much xD

    • Arleen says:

      Hi Ahmad
      I am dating an Egyptian man from Alexandria since may of last year, we talk on cam every day, I am a western women from the USA, I tried all test noted above with my boyfriend and he has passed, when i tell him I have male friends he tells me he trust me every thing is so beautiful, he wants me to travel to see him in person to Alexandria and their he wants to marry me he is younger then i, He has also said he believes only to be marry to one women because his family is raised to marry one women only he tells me he has never been married but has had other girlfriend before he met me he tells me when we married i choose if i will live in Egypt or in my country i have met hi mom briefly on line and dad on line I have tried to break up with him many times but he will not let go, as for me it is on the reverse, I am very jealous women and some how controlling and i have told him this that i am no good for him, I am not rich and i live on a pay check to paycheck, he states he loves me and will never let go of me, I have issues with commitment i don’t like to commit but in these case i don’t know if he is real or just looking for a way out to a visa, Ahmad can you give me ant advise, every one in this whole wold say run leave him, but he is stealing my heart please reply

  • jessie.danes says:

    i have recently met a man in a dating website, He is Egyptian and works in a hotel in Cairo for as he said 15 years. We started talking via skype, he never requested me to do anything that I wouldn’t want to do and has been very sweet and persistent. He professes that he is in love with me and wants to marry me and live with him in Egypt. He seemed intelligent, patient and an attentive listener to what i have to say. He seemed genuinely interested in what I have to say all the time. I told him if I do agree to marry him and live with him in his country that I would want to work and earn my own money to which he readily agreed, i can do anything i want as a long as it would make me happy. Too good to be true. I am still on the fence if i should believe or not, let alone allow myself to fall in love with him. After reading some horror stories of women marrying Egyptian did not help one bit. I have tried these test everytime we talk and so far everything seems to check out.. I’m trying to be positive but the there is still a big part of me that keeps saying its not gonna last.. I’m so confused right now, i don’t want to regret later on if I do let him go and it turned out that he was the one for me yet I’m not sure if i can handle it if all these unfortunate things that happened to these women who married wrong happens to me..

    • Lorena says:

      I am also seeing an Egyptian guy and we the same situation. He has all the nice trait and character a woman would fall in love with but I also have this feeling that it is never going to lasts and I have been preparing myself that somehow we are going to need to break up in the future.

  • engirl says:

    met en egyptian guy on holiday 2010. married 2012 after numerous visits to his family home in cairo, love his sisters/mum/nephews/neice to bits. finally got his visa 2013 and came to live in england. thats where it all went wrong. it was all too real for him and although he got a job, started paying a few bills and learnt to drive here, he cant/wont settle or accept the way we live here. as for the way he treats me behind closed doors? ive been secretly filming his mood swings and general selfish/childish behaviour to prove to my own parents how different he is when he isnt playing the loving husband role he reserves for when we have company. needless to say im in the process of starting what is potentially going to be a very messy divorce. love is blind and ive done everything i can to try to make our marriage work but all i get in return is verbal abuse, mind games, damaged self esteem, ruined house and a lazy dirty little toad that will wipe his bogeys anywhere. of course this could have happened with a guy of any nationality. just be warned. in the beginning he treated me like a queen and life couldnt be any better and i didnt listen to anyone who gave me any advise. how i wish i’d listened. i wonder how much time, money and heartache i would have saved myself.

  • Jess says:

    I met an Egyptian Guy in a chat room. He told me he wants to marry me, meet my family and to meet his family, he said he does not have much to give me. I told him I want his love, honesty and loyality. I have a very good job and a lot to offer, but I notice the last few days he has not been himself. His texts is short, and I text him a day ago he has not responding back. this guy says he loves me and wants to marry me, we made a lot of plans. I was going to meet him in August because I would be traveling for Business i ask for time off at my job. I do not know if he disappear, to soon to tell my friends told me to soon to tell. They think I should call him and ask what is going on? I am not sure what to do. It is Ramada so i know he is busy he did not want me to come there while Ramada was going on he said to come after. I do not want to chase him neither. I need help with this.

    • I know from experience says:

      Stay home…you have no idea of this culture! You don’t even know this boy/man???

    • Kriss says:

      Hey I had the same exect experions like you this summer. Did he write to you again? my story is that i am writing with one Egyption guy for two months by now, he has been very respectful, kind, polite, suportive of me.. He was saying that he loves me, we talked about me moving away from my country so we could meet each other… a couple of times i told him that it would be better for him to forget me cause that relationship would be too conplicated for me, and he was saying that he can’t stop messeging me, that he can’t forget me… and last time i said to him that i would like to stay friends, and that i hope that he will respect that, and he said yes of course i will respect your desicion. But he continued with sweet words to me after that, and juat from a few days ago, he stoped acting like himself… like he was avoiding talking to me. For exemple he text me, then i write to him, and he responds 6,7 hours later or a day later… that could NEVER happen before… before he would always tell me if he will be offline for a couple of days. Now i am so cobfused cause i dont know what happened. I think maybe he got bored of my suspicious behavior with him. But he agreed for us to stay friends. I wouldn’t like for him to go away from my life… What do you think? Cause i also know that he has another account. I found out about that. Maybe now he is more there, i don’t know, so confused….

      • sheeze says:

        OMLands…same story, same timeline. I thought it was the change in monitoring the internet..something has changed in him. He has become very distant and tightlipped with everything…sheeze…not sure what to think..all the promises, hopes…am very glad I’m finding this out today. I also have come to the conclusion that this is a repressive culture…so am really rethinking all this. Thks for posting.

  • Noor says:

    Hi engirl I can identify with your story. I met my husband in Dubai in 2009 and married in 2010. He came to join me in UK in the autumn of 2010 and we had 4 happy years here together. It wasn’t perfect though. Unlike your man mine didn’t pay any bills at home despite having a job, and like yours he learned to drive here too. He could be childish and selfish sometimes but I put that down to his upbringing and cultural inexperience. He did have some mood swings that made me question things sometimes and changed somewhat from when we were first together but I excused it as he was so kind and loving and easygoing in many other ways. He was immaculately clean although not very tidy, but respected our home and was always so well groomed. He liked many western things and I couldnt believe I could be so happy. However in 2014 he just left saying he could not take family pressure anymore and he was going to agree to their demands for him to marry an Egyptian girl that they would introduce. I was a secret to them and looking back now I see from sites such as this that this is a huge red flag although at the time I didn’t think it was a big issue. He lived away from them and did things they were unaware of anyway so I didn’t care too much. He got on so well with my family and friends, everyone loved him. So for him to just give us all up is so hard to take and understand. I’m not 100% convinced of whether this is truth or not but whether he left for that reason or another, either way I’m heartbroken. A year on and I’m still nowhere near healed. I’ve become a recluse, only going out when I need to for work. It’s such an awful situation to be in isn’t it, I don’t know I will ever get over it. Good luck with your troubles ahead. Thinking of you.

    • wickie says:

      I maried Egypia men in 2006,all his family knowed me.He coming live to Ee,to me.We had 2kids and 2times in years we go visited his family in Egypt.He was have god job in Europe,but he never put money to our family.He sended all to help his family.After 7years life in Eu,one day he kidnapped my boys to EgyptI am 3 years dont have any cotact with them and i so hard make evyryhik by eg.low.Directly after kidnapped,he maried.He told my boys,I am die.In my bad situation a lot men by net, FB,write me ,will help me take boys,but all just want money from me.I am not rich,ut eg.men think ,we are all rich in Eu.Al woman what i kw,unhapy after maried eg.In my situatin,one men tell,he will help.We try a lt thinks get my boys.In this sitati we stat have love etween.This time i was divrced wih ex husband.My friend frm Cairo,ad have educatin,he brink me to his family and lie them, he maried me.before me he was help american wan also seach her kidnaped son,and brink she to his family ,like his wife wih real maied she.She ae take boy go to America and stop contact him.He want we make paty,amily want ,r eiewe i am his wie,wihtout any papers.Everyk i must puy.His father make him in rouf flat.I was plan live wih him i Egypt an with my soons.He accepted all.I renta money from bank in my counry and i menage flat.Family was so nice wih me…..h….supe gaames kw pay egypia men,minimm in my 2s strencgh situations.before 2weeks,i find i miss money from our flat,from my chanta.Beore 2 mounths i was miss 200Eur from my voilet and he make probem with me in steet,how i can be stupid and lost.NOw i understnd,i didnt lost.Some one from his lovely family,open our door by key and takeiStart big problem,family play,like so angr i told some one stiler me.He more time beat me,was so nervous men,caled my and my amil v dirthy words./sharmuta,eb ni kalp,bich…/he called my kids when he was angry /2 dogs/.he like his self to much and told me i can have woman what i want.He have high shool.I know his sister what maied/she hve 20years old/stiller.but he told me,i cant aganist my family.I runig to my country and i dont know what now i can do.I was puy everythik,including food.He wrie me this end,retun me rig,cuch my photo.Have some body her help me,what i can do.He told me come tke you furniures,but u canot come,send egyptian.All facture i mahe under my name…but what now.Someody think,this wAs any love here??and he told me ,we wil maied officia in january and if i must all time renta some money in my couny,i will not travel.I will stay in egypt,i can go 1times in years to my couty.But now is end,he blocked me in phne.I want minim my money back.My 2 expeience so,so,so bad.

    • Natasha says:

      Hi, I met a coptic egyptian man online. I’m form Mexico, he is Egyptian. He is now living in the UK. We met last month and i must say I’m in love. He said he needed time to think if he wants/can make this formal. He is divorced, his wife and doughter now live in Jordan. I just don’t know what to do. Should I waith? I must say the cultural things frighten me. I just don’t know what to do. Please, please, any piece of advice will be really helpful

  • Moi says:

    Thank you. I ended up marrying with a abusive man. Not that i am going to meet another man soon or a egyptian man, but this i will keep In mind so i dont find myself ending up with a jealous control freak again.

  • susie says:

    Hi all I have a problem I was married for 3 years to an egyptian man, last year we had planned for me to move to egypt but a family member was diagnosed with cancer and I postponed move . my husband felt I had let him down, didn’t care enough about him, he ended the marriage. I have come to terms with this and realised he could not have loved me enough to wait. My problem is he still keeps in touch and sends sms almost every day asking how I am. I just don’t understand why he stays in contact with me. Have any of you had this happen to you ? And how did you deal with it.

  • Amira says:

    I’m an American woman married to an Egyptian man and living in Italy. We had both lived here a number of years before we met and got married and were both accustomed to the local culture before we started our relationship. Earlier on in our relationship, I noticed some if the negative characteristics some of the other commenters here mentioned. Although incredibly romantic and charismatic, my man was often very jealous and possessive, his listening skills and ability to admit wrongdoing somewhat lacking, and he wasn’t always the greatest at making attempts to see things from my point of view. I knew some of these characteristics to be common among some Egyptian men, as my best friend had dated an Egyptian for a number of years, and so approached the relationship with patience and a bit of caution. As our initial attraction developed into genuine love, I became more comfortable expressing my feelings about the things that bothered me, and to my delight, not only was my man receptive to what I had to say, he was happy that I was sharing my feelings with him honestly and he made genuine attempts to compromise on the the things that bugged me after I explained why. Coming from two very different cultures, we had a number of barriers to overcome, but with both of us willing to do our part to be understanding and explain why sometimes do things the way we do or think the way we think, our relationship developed into one of mutual respect, admiration and profound love and over time, his jealousy has subsided greatly. Although I once felt he might not be capable of seeing things from my point of view, he now puts my feelings and needs before his own–always. I witnessed his transformation with my own eyes and wouldn’t have believed it possible if I hadn’t lived through it myself. The relationship we have now is what I have always wanted–loving, passionate, understanding and fun. I’m myself with him and he loves me for that even when we have our occasional moments of culture clash (which do still happen from time to time). He’s a hard working, serious family man who loves me so much that he’s been willing to look beyond his cultural expectations to create a harmonious life with me. For my part, I’ve done my best to research and understand his culture so I could adapt my own mindset and attitude to meld better with his. I have a great and respectful relationship with his family and he with mine and we both understand the different expectations of our cultures and adapt accordingly. I think the key to our happiness together is that we’ve both put in the effort needed to overcome our cultural differences and understood early on that ours was a connection worth putting the effort into to develop a lasting bond. I think a lot of these things are important regardless of the relationship at hand, but we definitely were faced with more potential roadblocks given our different cultures, religions, languages and expectations of male-female relationships. We were also very fortunate that both of our families were very accepting and supportive of our relationship. I realize this doesn’t always happen with couples who come from different backgrounds and we both appreciate that very much. His family welcomed me with open arms and showed me nothing but complete kindness and warmth from the start. My family was actually a bit more reticent at the beginning, but were quickly won over by the efforts my man made and interest he showed in my family’s lives. The bottom line is that we both put in the effort to make things work, we communicate with each other in healthy ways and, in the end, we both want the same things out of our relationship and life together. Yes, there are certain tendencies that many Egyptian men have that American women might not be so used to, but I think the same holds true in reverse. If both halves of a couple are willing to be open and understanding, a relationship with an Egyptian man can be a beautiful thing.

  • sostupid says:

    Dear all,

    I would like to share my experience with you, or with the future victims of egyptian men!!!!! For those who are searching the Web to educate yourself about egyptian men, please listen to the advice and DO NOT marry an egyptian please please don’t. Some of you can call me racist ! Yes I became racist after they made me feel this way ! I am currently still married to an egyptian bastured and monster with a baby and seeking divorce ! My experience is this, I ve met my husband 5 years ago in canada he was a Canadian citizen already back then, and I am too ! He was already married to an egyptian woman who brought him to Canada, I didn’t want to have any kind of a relationship with a married man, nor I had any interst in an egyptian what so ever, I have always told and warned my girlfriends, that egyptian men are big no no and red flag for me or for any of my friends should consider !!!! But he convienced me that he was divorced !!! I have read all the other stories and most of them are similar, even mine !!! And they all have things in common, which made me convinced that egyptian men have a path they have learned as they have a book they are following or have a formula. They all have the same tricks and they master how to abuse and torture a woman with no mercy or guilt !!! Same path when it comes to physical violence and hit even a pregnant woman, which have happened to me many times when I was pregnant !!! They all don’t want to work and expect women to take care of their shit and pay bills, rent, food car expenses …..and they all know how to press buttons to manipulate women, and brain wash….I will have to share the details of my experience tomorrow, because I don’t know where to start and to end ! But I promise you that is a very intersting story !

  • Jasmine says:

    Hello,
    I am married to an Egyptian man, and sadly, reading all of these online forums of women and girls who have met the love of their lives (or so they believe) in Egypt compels me to voice my opinion; even many of those who feel their man is “different” are more often than not, kidding themselves and setting themselves up for heartache and emotional and financial ruin. I am myself not Egyptian but Palestinian/Syrian (my father was a Palestinian refugee and my mother is Syrian and I was raised in the U.S.), I am a Christian my husband is Muslim. Although Christian my family practiced many of the same conservative cultural practices people may associate with Islam, such as women and girls covering their heads and segregation of the sexes for certain events and worship. Likewise my family is extremely conservative and strict by western standards. I met my husband online as many of these women do, however we did not meet under the premise of a dating site or relationship-we met under totally random circumstances via humanitarian work that I do and became very good friends (nothing more for either of us, at least initially), we are the same age, both college educated, and from similar family values. right from the get go, both of our families and close friends were well aware of our friendship (and later relationship) he provided me his home addresses,
    Home and work numbers, kept me on his Facebook and listed himself as “in relationship” with myself, does not hide anything from me, and would put a bullet in his head before he would allow me to pay for anything. Sexual relations (even under the false pretenses of an orfi marriage) were off limits prior to marriage, he went to my family both to express his genuine love for me, and to ask for my hand in marriage, and we have a wonderful, amazing marriage and he is the most amazing man I ever have met; there are many decent and praise-worthy Egyptian men out there, unfortunately I must say honestly, I do not think the majority of women on these boards are dealing with them. We as humans always wish to believe and see the best in others, but as both myself and my dear husband are all too aware, Egyptian men of a particular class/mindset are extremely good at convincing unsuspecting women and girls that they are something they are not, that there is a realistic future with them, that they have genuine feelings for these females, etc. as a fellow female I want to be clear (and I mean no disrespect to these women who I am sure of lovely and deserving of a loyal loving partner) that red flags and serious warning signs are being ignored. If any of the following are true of your “relationship” with an Egyptian (or any other for that matter) man, you are being duped: if there is a significant age difference (I would say 5+ years, I know age differences are not a huge problem in western culture but the Middle East does not subscribe to that idea, as a whole anyways), if he is In the tourist industry at all, if he is uneducated, asks for financial assistance or allows you to pay for anything (regardless of his income, an Arab man would rather die than be assisted by a female, especially the one he proclaims to love and want to marry, he will beg borrow or steal from family, friends whatever before you pull out your purse I promise you), if he had slept with you, if you have not met his family (and verified these are indeed his family and their occupations etc.), same with friends, if he wants to move to a western country for sure, if he is not available to you any hour of the day or night (Arab men are extremely protective of their women and they will worry of you do not respond to a text or voicemail in a timely manner, you will not have a good Egyptian man go MIA for hours or days at a time without a notification, you will know his daily schedule and there should be no question what he is doing regardless of the time difference or what have you, no matter what the circumstance and Arab man will find a way to reach you if an an emergency or change to his routine should occur) and lastly, if he seems eager to marry, or keen to secure your affections. My husband was appalled
    At the number of Egyptian young men marrying older foreign women at the ministry of justice!! Most of these men will not get clearance for a visa, and if they do, they are not realistically able to make a go of life in a western country (poor education,
    Poor English, lack of cultural awareness etc.) I caution women thinking of this fairy tale story to take a long hard look at the situation before acting. I can tell you Intracultural relaironshops are very complex in the best of circumstances as is immigration to a new country, I know this as my mother was born in the USA (but raised in Syria, turkey, Iran, and the USA) and my father immigrated from Palestine the year I was born, and there is no easy adaptation to such a drastic change in culture. If it seems to good to be true, it probably is, if he doesn’t test you as well that’s a red flag, if you have not discussed serious issues ljke religion, children, career, etc. forget it. Here in the west it may be acceptable to have sex prior to marriage even in relatively strict upbringings-I can promise you, it is not there!!! PleSe women excercise extreme caution and do not fall into these love scams.

  • Jasmine says:

    Another thing worth mentioning is the difference in gender roles and the perceived “controlling” nature of Arab/middle eastern men. Granted there are certainly some true control freaks in the mix, but mostly this is just a difference in cultural norms and expectations. If you are not desiring to be in a relationship wherein the man is the leader of the home and the woman is the “helper” as per the Old Testament and Quran, you need to understand you will not westernize this out of your man. It’s either something you embrace and grew up with yourself,
    Or it’s not for you.

  • Emily says:

    Hi everyone, I am a 25 year old American girl living in Cairo and I am doing research on the relationships between American/European women and Arab men, both in Egypt and Jordan. The problems that are mentioned on this forum are so common that I’m truly shocked and I would like to learn more about your experiences (which can be kept anonymous if you prefer) and your opinions on why this happens so frequently (i.e. Arab men tricking or manipulating foreign women into marriage or just using them for money and sex). Please respond to this comment and I will give you my email address/Facebook contact info. Thank you!

    • Wael says:

      Hi Emily,
      Since you are doing research on that, I’d like to help you on collecting accurate data \ samples as I’m pretty sure that most of the problems mentioned here is mainly depending on the target from the relation and restricted among specific class which well explained by Jasmine.
      Available for further discussions.
      Good luck!
      Wael

  • Diane says:

    PS: One thing I am really scared of is that after wedding he will be able to take my daughter away and that his mum will want to keep her in Egypt. But he told me not to worry, they would never do that as she is not a boy. He makes sexist jokes quite frequently but it was very encouraging from him..

  • TATA NAAR says:

    Be extremely Careful of this criminal from Alexandria, Egypt. He is after older wealthy or successful women!!! Here some of his several Facebook pages!
    Haytham Saladin Habib, alias Sam Copperfield, Haithamsalah El Din Habib, Haytham Habib.

    Arab Lounge as: My.Name.Is.Sam, Sam Copperfield, & Sam copper.

    LikIn: Haytham Habib, poss as a Dentist
    My circles (Google) as Haytham Habib

  • Aisha says:

    Somebody help me.. I have Egyptian boyfriend, and now we are in almost 1yr in a long distance relationship, we have plan to get ;married after im coming back dubai bcoz we have a son with me now,. But im just thinking about if i will married him or no..? Bcoz i have a lot of sacrifice to him, he hurt me a lot. He told me he have girlfriend now but he is still loving me and he told me that don’t worry he will change after im coming back and he will become good to me.. Im so hurt to hear that he told me he have girlfriend with him, im very loyal to him,. But why his doing this to me, sometimes im thinking that is bcoz he is a man that need a care of a woman, so i calm down for this. And sometimes he is fighting with me like send message not good, bcoz my drama, also he really don’t like talking about money. But im asking money only bcoz of his son, so why he is like that.? Please give me advise.. I really love him so much that’s why i keep calm. And understand that he is a man that’s why his doing like that,. Do u think he will change after im coming back with him.?

    • laila says:

      i’m married for 8 years sis… and im suffering too much… my husband and his family hurt me physically… and im now 10 years no vacation because of him. he told me that i cannot go back to my country again or else he will kill me… my husband have a lover also… think girl… im suffering here i want to go home but nobody will look for my kids thats why im still here… alone….

  • amanda says:

    wow..this article has saved my future and the future of my kids..thankyou

  • amanda says:

    And if you are paying out money too fast too many times at the start of the relationship….. danger, danger, danger, red flag…..oh dear

  • perlas says:

    Hi there.I dated an Egyptian Engineer.I met him online.He was polite,romantic and educated.He told me he was divorced and has a daughter.He promised marriage and wanted to meet my family.I believed everything he said.He seemed sincere as he knows all my friends.Until he went back to Egypt last August,he didn’t even contact me.He was not able to come back on his scheduled flight without informing me.I called his colleague and told me the truth that he and his wife were never separated and divorced.Also he had 3 to 4 relations at the same time.When he came back he told me that his family and the woman’s family arranged their marriage again.He said there’s no love for the wife and the reason of the reconcillation was his daughter.Also,he wanted to date my friend and kept on calling her and adding her on facebook.I was really hurt
    and heartbroken.I also found out that he was having sexual relations with different women and prostitutes.That relationship was awful as I risk my life and health.

  • Muhammad says:

    Actually ! It is my wish to marry an older foreigner girl who should be good but sometimes I feel they want me as a thing for sexual enjoyment only
    So if an Egyptian man looked to a girl by sexual enjoyment only as most of foreigner girls who come to here
    This what will make the man unloyal

  • Help please says:

    Well I met this guy, he live in Alexandria, Egypt and well we started talking.it was that he had met me through. A comment on face book and his first message was “I just want to kiss you” maybe that’s a red flag but at that moment I wasn’t doing well with my boyfreind . So we started talking more and more. We’ve been saying I love, which in my opinion it’s very early, but I felt so many butterflies that saying I love you made me so happy. Well that all went down, he started saying that he had exams and couldn’t talk as much. We don’t video talk anymore(we would video talk everyday) becouse he doesn’t have wifi nor data but still your here talking to me. Yes you might think, why is she still with him if he does that, Well i like this Guy. But befoRe that knowing each other for less than 3 weeks he was going to I guess stop talking to me so for him not to go I told him that I had bought my ticket to go see him in the summer, he was so happy and it made me feel bad,thinking ,does this guy actually like me ? I like him so much that I guess I can’t notice. Now he hasnt talked to me as much, mostly at all . And when he gets data he makes the excuse that it went down. Maybe I just need someone to give me and advice onto what I should do. He asked me for money once, to look for a job and save money so when he’s here we can live happily ever after. But I’m not doing that, if he really loves me he will work, we are both Christian and he’s a nice guy, I’m not going to lie, but he does have some bad listening, and interrupts a lot and many times it make me wonder if I’m the only one he talks to ….

    • Samantha says:

      I think after readi g all this we have met men that are so different then what we expected. Despite my uncertainty about him I’m hang on. But I hope someone answers who knows. Mine is in Cairo too. But he is Muslim. I am so afraid my love is for nothing. Youth wi find others but when your older well fairy tales don’t come true I wish and pray for a little hope

    • It’s a shame in Egypt to ask money from your girlfriend . :)

  • laila says:

    i’m a filifina i was wrong marrying egyptian man. i’m now 8 years here in egypt he leave me alone surrounded by his unfriendly family. i try my best to be a part of their family even give my mobiles to them, money etc… but doesnt work. they hate foreigners. his family is not nice to me, they hurt me… and my husband doesnt defending me. he doesnt believe in me, doesnt protect me, he always call me bitch he and his relatives. they say that i have no right to live in here, i really want to go back to my country but he doesnt allow me, he doesnt listen to me. and he dont even admit that he has a lover in kuwait even if i saw evidence.

    they call themselves god fearing people which is the opposite….
    i’m waiting for his return i wanna go home to my country…

  • Samantha says:

    I am involved with a Egyptian man for over a year no sex guys. He is 10 yrs younger and he us 45 I’m 55. My question is he isn’t tolerant if me going out alone with any male and says well would you like me too? Truthfullly I’m the jealous type too. He says he’s been in the army and has just retired. He claims tri have his own flat. He wants me to sell my home and but a new one and he comes here. He says come there to visit but since he lives in New Cairo I would not like it and the medical care is expensive. We Skype we talk about everything. He does have a problem about jealousy but I don’t think that’s the main concern. I have found that he is in several chatting dating sites using what he calls his family name which isn’t the name he goes by at least the last name. He did mention he has a family name but never said much more. If I ask him as I did he says I told you and that’s before I met you. Z
    I don’t k ow can he truly love me we spoke first as friends but when I lost my sister we became close. I am sure he is sexual but swears since meeting me her rather not go out with a woman. After reading this and having a friend move to Dubai and have a duaster of a marriage I am worried. Why two names never could understand why except one was for family so what should I do. I love him but can’t afford to go to Egypt. He will come here only if we marry. He says we can marry in Egypt and this way I can sell my home then we can move. My friend says run I’m not sure at my age this decision is my last for a marriage since I have no chdren he was married but divorced and doesn’t have children. Is there anyway I can check to see what he’s telling me is the truth? He supposedly is college educated and is comfortable.

  • Ayman says:

    AS an Egyptian i can tell you that it is true that some Egyptian men may want to make a relation with Foreign women just to move abroad and get a better life even this is not a guilt but it is the exception not the rule ..the rule for Egyptian man is to settle down ..make a family ..get a loving Wife and have a couple of kids and struggle to make them happy ..Egyptians in general are not womanizing ..Egyptian is a one woman man but still that he will not accept in a way or another his woman to have an affair or make a relation with other men
    i agree with the writer that most of the Egyptian playboys are in the field of Tourism .. the real Egypt is really different from what you may see in Sharm Or Hurghada or any other touristic places …i claim that Egyptians are the most civilized .. intelligent and honorable guys in the whole area ..

  • Egy Mid-Aged-Loner says:

    There re cheaters , players all over the world ..men are the same everywhere no onene is perfect actually ..when it comes to Egyptian men i think they re more loving.caring and much warmer than other men and it is true that some Egyptians may use a foreign woman as a mule to get a residency or travel abroad but those are few and they re concentrating in the field of Tourism or any other jobs related to it . in general Egyptian men re passionate .compassionate. warmhearted and romantic ( i am not promoting them) the truth behind problems which may happen between foreign women and their Egy husbands basically related to different habits and changing Lifestyles ..that is it

  • Dedy says:

    I have been married to an Egyptian on and off for 7 years. My experience is that foreign women must accept them with caution. They would use you to support another wife. Very charming, mostly inclusive of all the negative characteristics mentioned in the article. Often because they can be reasonably good looking one can be fooled by their general class. Often individuals from a low social class with poor living environment. Had I seen his background before I would not even have dated him.

  • Rachel says:

    I’m brazilian and I met an Egyptian guy 6 years ago in Cairo through a friend, but since I was married at that time nothing happened, he showed some interest in me but never tried anything because I was married. After that we became friends on facebook and only last year we met again in London where I current live. I told him I was getting divorced, he showed to be caring and supportive. 4 months after my divorce we are now officially dating. I told him I wasn’t ready for a new relationship but he insisted to make it work. Our relationship is long distance as he lives in Egypt. He has already shown signs of jelousy, control and possession, he said I’m his territory. Brazilians are very liberal and open minded, he is also quite open minded too as he studied abroad and dated foreigners. 2 weeks ago he said he loved me and that he fell in love the first day he saw me 6 years ago. He also told me that he used to check my facebook daily and that he’d been with ather women thinking of me. He confessed that he was obsessed about me. I’m actually very scared and concerned with all this. He is hard worker seems to be finiacially stable was married for 12 years and had 3 kids, he’d shown to be a wonderful father. He’d never asked me to pay for anything so he is the one that offers to pay. He’s been treating me like a queen, paid for 2 holidays already and gave me an expensive gift. We see each other monthly and he pays for everything. He doesn’t like lying and demands to be treated like a king with loyalty, fidelity, love and respect. Some how still feel insecure even after he showed me how much he cares and loves me. I’m very supicious because I’ve been used before. I’ve already hid things from him which he found out and felt betrayed, I did it out of fear. I don’t know if I should continue because I don’t want to feel like I’m walking on eggshells, I don’t like control. Also I’m a professional dancer I also have doubts if he will accept my profession. Our chemistry is out of this world! We are totally opposites.

  • Michelle says:

    I am from the UK and have just returned from a holiday in Hurghada where I met an Egyptian man from Luxor who was on holiday there too. We had a lovely time and he was nothing short of a gentleman, paid for everything, asked me for nothing. He knows I have no money or property in the UK. He says he loves me (that his heart chooses me) and wants us to marry and make a life together in Egypt. He introduced me to his friends (& cousins who visited later) as his future wife and appeared to be genuinely excited and happy about the prospect. He says he is from a wealthy family and that he works for his Father (he is not in the tourist industry). He wants me to return to Egypt and visit his family in Luxor and for me to see he is genuine about marrying me. He is adamant that he does not want to live in the UK.
    Having read other comments, though not entirely the same circumstances, I am second guessing if I am being foolish to believe something good can come out of this – though also would not want to ruin things if there is a chance of this being genuine by overthinking and scepticism.
    He is 27 and Muslim, I am 48 and Christian. I divorced 6 years ago and do not have, nor want children, he says he does not want children and has given me his ID card to prove to me that he is single. He says that he does not want many wives only the one, me, and has never asked a female to meet his family before. He appears to be more concerned that I am not being serious with my love to him rather than the other way around and wants me to be certain that it is him I want before he looks foolish infront of his family.
    I have read the unfortunate stories of others but surely there must be some genuine cases of true love and happy endings with Egyptian men?

    • Hi Michelle my name is Natalie,
      I have just read ur message as i am doing my research because i meyself is planning to go to Egypt to meet the man i have met via facebook, i am from the uk by the way.
      He requested me on fb 2 & half years ago but we have only started to get to know eachother since November 2016…
      All of a sudden i have really strong feelings for this guy…i believe im in love with him & he says he feels the same too, without meeting eachother!!!!!…i know its crazy, but it has happened i find myself thinking about him all day & night!!!

  • Mohamed says:

    Hello. I want to say something.
    Something about my life that I want, I’m 22 years young Egyptian, I wish to marry a girl is an but not Egyptian girl, because I do not like the Egyptian girls.
    Most of them hypocrites and do not learn from their mistakes.
    And the passage of time does not bother her husband nor her body and every day are weeping for that you purchase some vile stuff like to buy some jewelry wept be the most beautiful girl in the universe.
    Beauty is not my jewelry, but the beauty in the character, the beauty of the shy, beauty in the eyes,
    only love is what lasts. And I see that the daughters of other countries are much better, and I love the girl English and American and European, because they are thinking in the right, not in the wrong.
    And respect for their husband. And I want to love girl Amrerican h or English or European

  • Soheila says:

    @ Egy-MidAged-Loner I was very interested to read your post and I agree with a lot of what you have said. I would really like your thoughts on a key point you raised which was about the main problem being difference in habits and changing lifestyles. Was this on both sides of relationship or just one? I mean, do you think Egy men have problems with adapting to elements of Western life or is it because they marry Western women who will not change behaviour patterns or beliefs to Eastern ways? Do have experience of this with a Western woman? Reason I ask is I have been in relationship with Egyptian and all ok for 3 years in fact we’ve been so happy but last year things have changed and I don’t know whether he has been struggling with our relationship all along. I am keen to get another perspective so I can help him as much as I can.

  • Cindy Green says:

    Hello I’m a 45 year old female American, I have been messaging and Video chatting a Egyptian male that I met online. In all he seems to be a decent guy, however extremely jealous even over old pictures. We have only been video chatting one month, and he is already speaking of marriage. Now don’t get me wrong I would love to be married, I think that’s every woman’s dream or at least some women. While reading all of the these messages my eyes have been opened up to many things. Can someone give me some advice on what to look out for if it’s indeed true that some Egyptian men are just marrying Foreign women for ( Sex, and Money)……… My email address is cindygrren70@yahoo.com.

  • Javster says:

    Help, I’ve met the most wonderful woman in the world but! I invite her out, we go out, she tells me she’s Muslim, then she tells me that she is married to an egyptian ten yrs her jr! She visits him two times a year! The last time she opened his Iphone, and she busted him communicating with another woman here in So. Cal. So, he asked for her forgiveness, and she grants it to him. Guess what? She petitioned for his permit/residency and they won’t grant it! Should I just give up and move on?
    P.S. She’s a Mexican National with US CItizenship. Teaches Spanish at a local University!

  • Z says:

    I have been dating a Egyptian guy for two months. All he talks about is sex. He is 15 years older than me. He tells me loboo all the time. He wants me to go meet his family that only lives 45 minutes from me. He says he only gets mad if someone tells me that he is a fake. He says he does ant want me to work when we get together because his family would disown him if I worked. He has never asked me for money. He says he owned three or four businesses . I asked him to give me his address and it is like he is ignoring me. He told me he was going to move here and build us a house . He also said he came here for four days to pay 2500 on the contract. Then he got mad at something my friend said and he said he called the realitor and cancelled the contract I don’t believe he ever came here. He promised he would treat me like a queen . I haven’t seen nothing. I haven’t even met him yet. He keeps making up excuses.

  • Trisha says:

    Help please, I have an Egyptian boyfriend for 6 months now. At first meeting or first month, he invited me to go out and have some lunch or dinner and he is the one paying but after few a month when he came back from vacation I noticed that every time we go out I am the one paying for our food expenses. He never tried to share any amount, I just want to ask if it’s normal to a relationship to pay knowing the fact that he has lots of financial commitments and I am aware that till now he is not in financially stable since he is paying for his monthly credit card, car loan, family & other expenses so almost nothing left on his salary. Please advice if it’s okay that I am always doing this for him though it’s not good for us as a woman that we are paying instead of him. But I can say that he is a nice guy and he loves me a well since he has always time for me. Only this is the thing that I noticed to him every time I am with him. Awaiting for your advice. Thanks, regards Trisha.

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